I’m doing something today that I should have been doing for months, and that is FINALLY posting something on this blog! A blogger I’m not, but my pre-New Year’s resolution is to start blogging more often.
It was my intention when I first started this blog to write something at least weekly. Ha! It
just wasn’t happening; and it wasn’t because I didn’t have anything to say.
I was doing lots (and lots) of things, so I certainly had something to talk about. Most of the things would certainly benefit other people (if they knew about them), and one or two of them might even offer someone a life-changing piece of information if I’d only gotten around to sharing it. It wasn’t because I didn’t want to share, it seemed I never got around to it; or when I got around to it, the words didn’t want to come out right.
Was it procrastination, trepidation, hesitation, or intimidation? I couldn’t be sure. All of them could be applied, but none of them hit it directly on the head until…
I got this book; yep, this book. It’s funny because I’d heard of the author by chance. I got an email during the summer about a series of live tele-seminars this guy was doing. The emails showed the guests and their scheduled days, and one of the guests happened to be a friend of mine so I planned to listen.
On the appointed day I listened as planned. The host seemed like a genuine “sweetie.” Such a “sweetie” in fact, I planned on finding out just who he was
. Anyway, since the interview was live I sent an email and we three had a brief exchange throughout the interview. It was great. Afterwards I looked up the host and read his website and what exactly he was known for in his field. Interesting…
Nevertheless, as it can be with a “hesitating, procrastinating,” intimidated person with some measure of trepidation, I didn’t re-visit his site until some months later, and even then nothing different happened.
Then one day I was ordering books and I remembered him. So I order his book. The price was reasonable, the information (if it were viable), would and could be exceptionally useful, and the fellow as I said before, seemed to be a genuine “sweetie”- and my friend, whom I held in the highest regard seemed to enjoy his company.
The book arrived a few days later and it seemed so interesting that I put it in my pocket on my way out the door just in case I had a few minutes to read at it, before I got a chance to read it. Well I read at it just enough to intrigue me and make me anxious to read it for real. Maybe there was something in there for me which didn’t involve chanting, a special diet, or a jillion dollars to implement.
Well, there was definitely something in there. Round about chapter 3, a big giant fist popped right out of the book and punched me in the face! When I regained consciousness, I found myself in the midst of sending an email to the author…!
AND HERE WE ARE TODAY!
Who was the author and ”sweetie”? Noah St. John, PhD. And the name of this particular book (he has more than one) is The Secret Code of Success; available on Amazon.com for less than $20.00.
As I said before, no chanting, or other crazy B.S. involved in the secret code of success- just thinking!
As a human service provider, teacher, consultant and sales person, I’m in the people business. Not only that, I’ve had some experience being a “people” myself for a while so I recognize a universal human truth when I see it (sooner or later).
Dr. St. John is known for identifying a human tendency he calls “success anorexia.” The ability that human beings have of depriving themselves and their businesses of success!
The Bible says the power of life and death are in the tongue, and so they are. It further says that “as a man thinketh, so is he,” true again.
Peter Senge (1999) calls it mental models, and warns against their ability to stifle an organization’s growth and success. He advocates “metanoia” or a changing of the mind.
Kuhn called it a “paradigm shift” or a change in thinking (1962). Whatever you call it, if you are subconsciously depriving yourself and your agency of success, you need to recognize the symptoms and begin to change the way you think.
That’s where Noah comes in. In my delirium of discovering how much more effective I could be if I stopped engaging in the subconscious act of “success anorexia.” Why do I say “subconscious”, because none of us would knowingly or intentionally sabotage ourselves or our businesses, and on the surface, it appears we are doing all the right things, nevertheless…
You’re probably thinking right about now:
1). “I thought this was a blog for grant writers.” You’re right, it is. But this affects grant writers, and nonprofit organizations too. If you’ve ever heard or said these words, “we’re a nonprofit, we’re not supposed to have money”, or “we’re never gonna get this grant, there’s too many other people applying for it – we’re too small, too new, too whatever” then Noah’s information will help you. I once spent two hours with a woman going over every detail of a grant application she wanted to apply for only to hear her say at the end, “well, I don’t think ____ is going to go for the cash match anyway…” What the Hell was that? She gave up even before she tried it!
This may not apply directly to you, but to others you work with, perhaps even your ED or CEO. Their success anorexia has a direct effect on YOU; your motivation, your salary, your creativity, and your willingness to try new things.
Or you may be thinking:
2). “Are you selling something?” Nope (hahaha) I’m not. As a matter of fact in my extended state of delirium, I invited Dr. St. John to do a webinar for all of my friends in the nonprofit world, and he said “YES.” How cool is that. I’m so excited I don’t know what to say (so I won’t tell you that I don’t know the first damn thing about a webinar except how to listen to one. But this is such a monumental opportunity that I’ll figure it out. We can all learn together how easy is it for a newbie to use GoToWebinar).
The webinar is scheduled for Thursday, January 27th, 2011 at 7:00 p.m. Eastern Standard Time.I will post information on how to register as we get closer to the date. In the meantime, if you’d like, there is a sign up box on my website for “Priority Notification”, you can submit that with your first name and email address and that way you’ll be on the mailing list and will be automatically notified and sent a link to register.
This webinar is FREE. Consider it a public service. If this works out, I’d like to be able to bring you more webinars like this one throughout the year with information that will help you and your business efforts really excel in 2011.
To your success!
And remember…
“LG Baby” (Life’s good!)
Learn more about Noah St. John here: www.SuccessClinic.com
